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A woman should
steal a man's hatband and wear it as a garter. This will ensure her his
love. |
Carry the beard
of a wild turkey and you will attract love. |
When walking
with your lover, let nothing (like posts, fire hydrant) come between you
and you will keep the love or friendship strong. |
Rice thrown at
newly weds to transfer the power of earth's fertility to them.
Wedding cake
used to be thrown at the couple for the same reasons. Today we eat
it. |
A wedding in the
month of May is considered bad luck because Romans honored the dead in
that month. June is more popular because it is connected with
mating. |
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Wedding garters
(for the bride) must be blue to follow ancient customs of representing
spirtuality & constancy. |
When a bride
throws here wedding bouquet to the single girls, it is based on an
ancient custom that whoever catches it will marry that year. |
Wedding rings go
back to Egyptian times and their vows. Never take off your wedding
ring unless you are using it to fight a witch! |
Carrying the
bride over the threshold goes back to when men got their women by
capturing them?
Or it is from the old belief to stumble on a threshold is back luck and
no man wanted a wife with bad luck (for bearing children.) |
Bridesmaids and
Bestman are believed to represent the two contending families fighting
it out while the man captured his bride? |
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Groom is used
because it was believed the man was the servant to wait on the bride. |
Honeymoon comes
an old tradition that only the bride, groom & family were to drink
mead liquor (made from honey) for a solid month or one full moon. Some
think it was to relax the couple (esp. in arranged marriages). |
Having a Baby?
To guarantee you get a boy, the husband was to stick a knife in his
pregnant wife's mattress.
For a girl?
He was to put a skillet under her bed. |
More boy ideas:
In the Ozarks,
it is believed that the father-to-be sit on the roof near the chimney
for 7 hrs.
I mean, as if
men need heating up?
Duh! |
Infertility?
If a wife is
having a problem getting pregnant, then she is to go naked in her garden
on Midsummer's Eve (June 23) and pick a flower called St. John's wort. |